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How are you? As she explained the manner occaional which she and Michael were communicating, I realized Karen was dealing with a situation several other women very recently talked to me about. Since their last Nsa sex Padova married together, Michael kept in touch with Karen on a regular basis.

Every couple of weeks, Karen received a text or email from him. The messages always started dinneer the same way: Karen would proceed to fill him in on her life and Michael would always respond with the same short answer: After one or two text messages, Michael would usually disappear. But a couple of weeks later, he would show up Horny woman in Hillsboro ohio. Sometimes their conversations would go deeper -- ten minutes of texting back and forth.

Karen would find hope in those longer texting sessions, thinking that he was finally engaging occasional her. Michael would sometimes get more creative, giving Karen the impression he cared about her and her life. For Any women up at all How was your holiday weekend?

Saw your Facebook Tfxting, so funny. But every time Karen agreed to dinner, Michael would Texting friend and occasional hang out or dinner her about his really busy month at work, delaying the need to schedule a real date.

Then he would never follow up.

How do you deal with the texting, calling, wanting to spend time with her? who's so insecure that they're terrified of her hanging with a few male friends? Do you know why you don't trust her around male friends? .. LOL Casual dating ? i found out one day when she was supposedly meeting a gf of her's for lunch. When a Guy Wants to Hang Out With You. It might make Just be aware that “ hanging out” often is casual. This is his .. He invited you to dinner at his house for the first date. .. You aren't looking for a texting buddy right. How Long Do You Have to Respond to a Text Request to Hang Out? Your phone buzzes and it's a text request from a friend, enemy or random to hang out and grab a drink tonight, or to catch dinner, a show or movie in a few days. . but since this is a men's magazine, occasionally the hard ones.

This faux relationship wasn't going anywhere and Karen was left feeling confused and frustrated about Michael's intentions. These sporadic texts weren't even about sex -- Michael never proposed any sort of rendezvous. And Karen's motivation Texting friend and occasional hang out or dinner certainly not friendship.

The week before, I had come up with the term as a joke, but the idea actually made sense. Michael was maintaining her -- keeping her, in his mindsatisfied -- and he was doing it electronically.

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My friend Julia was dealing with the same issue. She was subject to these short, rapid bursts of texting with men occasionql a consistent basis and always got her hopes up that something was moving forward, but then there was nothing.

No substance at all. I can't figure it out," she said to me. Men are socially conditioned to behave this way to prevent women from becoming hysterical.

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According to mainstream social ideas, women are illogical when it comes to relationships and dating. Men engage in conscious maintenance as a way to keep women "calm" so they can get what they want from their female partners sex, attention, etc. This is why so many men are in a rush to cram their love and affection into holidays, birthdays, Texting friend and occasional hang out or dinner. We don't teach men or boys that day-to-day affection is equally, if not more important, than special dates.

And what has always been alarming to me is that this so-called maintenance of women has defined as "extra" behavior that shouldn't be considered "extra" in any kind of relationship or partnership. Fucking sexy Terrace Heights

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The consistent attention maintenance mimics should be the foundation of all relationships: So, if men are taught about certain critical steps to keeping women happy, "duties" that are treated not as normal behavior, but as annoying, time-consuming steps, how does this make women feel?

My friends, who are or were dealing with e-maintaining, or even Texting friend and occasional hang out or dinner dealing Sexy women drunk at the lake good-old-fashioned maintaining, are left in a strange, emotional limbo.

Women who are "maintained" by men, via text or otherwise, are made frieend feel legitimate for short periods of time and then left to question their relationships and sometimes themselves. Are these women supposed to be happy with a guy who stays in touch every so often on his terms? Are they supposed to be satisfied when their spouse buys them an expensive piece of jewelry or remembers an anniversary? Does any form of maintaining make up for days, weeks, months, years of emotional qnd from men?

We've always conditioned men to maintain women -- this isn't something new. What's different is this "maintenance" has become completely electronic for some men, and the men doing the "maintaining" aren't seeing or even making an effort to see the women they are connecting with. Men are just texting, emailing or using social media to give the impression they are checking in or they care -- in order to maintain these women. For these men, the definition of "maintenance" has shifted from traditional strategies like sending gifts and meeting for the occasional dinner, drinks or movie to the incredibly convenient and empty communication text messages, emails, and social media offer: Some of Women seeking nsa Shelby Montana men I spoke with didn't even realize they were e-maintaining of women Texting friend and occasional hang out or dinner a pattern of behavior.

Most of them admitted to doing it when they were bored: I don't have to do anything else.

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My friend Josh gave an example: We even went to the movies. In this age of digital communication texting, Facebook, emailour way of connecting has obviously become more frivolous.

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So, is e-maintaining ultimately about men and women placing different weight on communication?

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Do women believe that communication is about moving forward? And do men see communication in this form in a more flippant manner, that it doesn't necessarily lend legitimacy to their desired outcomes?

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Does this virtual maintenance of women show the lack of respect our culture requires or expects men to have for women? Last week, I checked in with Karen to see if she was still pining for Michael and frustrated by his e-maintaining. And from now on, Karen's policy is very simple when it comes to communicating with the men who interest her: Show me substance. I hope you will join me on Facebook and follow me on Twitter. This piece originally appeared on The Current Conscience.

Tap here to turn on desktop notifications to get the news sent straight to you. She liked Michael a lot, and wanted to see him again.

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She was happy; he wanted to hang out again. Now Karen wishes that was the last time she ever heard from him. What's the point of all this? I told her, "Karen you're being e-maintained. But many of these men knew exactly what they were doing. So why not keep doing Need white woman, especially if some of these women are willing to sleep with them?

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