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The stereotype is clear: An attractive, white, upper-middle-class couple, usually with their own beautifully decorated home and perhaps a family. The kind of couple with a precious, self-satisfied wedding announcement in The New York Times.

The handsome husband is bored by marriage, and has come to take his beautiful, high-achieving wife for granted. Commence autopilot and eye roving.

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Enter the unicorn—so named because she is supposedly so rare. Everything she agrees to which is everythingshe later comes to regret. The wife buries her insecurity: The husband shelves his marital frustration: He gets to be the alpha gorilla, the supreme conquerer, auteur of scenes coupled the spankbank.

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No one is really getting off—well, except for maybe the husband. Commence therapy and an expensive divorce.

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Or so I thought. Regardless, what I needed was not to get married fast, but to fuck around and make a few mistakes. All young women need this if they are going to be—as Obama so beautifully said—adventurous instead of demure.

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And since experimentation is important, I propose unicorning with a stable, healthy couple is the ideal way to do it. Think about it: You get the example of a solid relationship to learn from. You get two people dedicated to finding and mining your pleasure. You get a group dynamic, which allows for mutual vetting and greater trust, as well as the airing of stigmatized private fetishes.

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Of course, the possibility of emotional and physical danger can never be entirely ruled out. This couple is safe.

We play sober. I know their STD status. This is a safer place to loooing than what is socially acceptable for young women. She is the managing editor of Frenchly. Your Brain on Sex: The Ethical Slut: Sex at Dawn: Attaching to baby often means distancing from your spouse.

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